Letting go of control, whew! This is a big one! First thing I ask myself, how can you want so much control, when you don’t have a tight grip on your own life. Why do we feel entitled to have so much control? What is it in us that attracts this need to be in full control? What high horse have we rolled in on to think if it’s not my way then it’s not right?
Yes, some situations need some guidance. Like my temple(my home), in my home I have to have it feeling harmonies. This is my escape from the world, so must be a scenery of relief. A relief from any troubles I may have encountered. Plus I have things in my home that will rid of any troubles/ negativity I may have connected to out in the world. Things such as incense, plants, sage, Himalayan salt lamp, burn Frankincense & Myrrh in a aromatherapy lamp. If the world is full of problems and your home is full of problems, where is your peace? Where is your outlet? How do you release? Do you read a book, do you sit at the lake, do you take walks, do you take relaxing baths? Point is, we all need a peaceful area to renew our spirit.
Let’s list a few things we can’t control; the vehicle that cut us off on the road, the person who let the door close in your face while leaving out of Starbucks, Miss Cherlin at work didn’t say good morning, hairdresser was 30 mins late lol, or how someone reacts. We often get offended and respond back on that same negative vibration. Count to five.. relax, relate, release. Because most times people may not see you, personally. In most cases people can only vision what is going with them or the burdens they may be caring. Don’t go out of your way to meet them at that low vibration. The more I worked on healing my own burdens the less I negatively react to others burdens; instead, I became more compassionate.
But today, I feel light as a feather and I’m flowing like the river. Because I learned to let go of control. There are times I can’t control myself. I would have whole day planned, and God will speak into my spirit and say “sit.” When I became more obedient my life began to change for the better. I learned that every thing that glitters ain’t gold, I learned quality over quantity, I learned my passion, and most importantly I learned to let go of things I can’t control! BOOM! Have Great Day! 💜